The Next Day Part 3

You may want to read The Next Day Part 1 and Part 2 before this one!

After spending the afternoon talking to the neighbors and kids, Louis and I went up to the hospital to visit with Frank’s family.  Because this was being treated as a trauma and a needless to say a crime, Frank’s personal information was being withheld.  The operator would tell you nothing about Frank…not even a room number.  But, we were persistent and made our own way to the trauma ICU to see what and who we could find.

That was it!  We found Frank’s friends and family overflowing out of the small 8’x12′ waiting room.  I admit I was a bit hesitant and felt a bit intrusive, but the Lord had directed us to go.  There appeared to be some hesitancy on their part too.  Not sure about us and our agenda.  But, we were there to….again..just be present….to pray…to read scripture…to be the feet of Jesus.  No agenda.

We learned that Frank was not conscious.  He had been shot 9 times.  Upper right chest, left shoulder, left thigh, right hand and 5 times in the gut.  Frank had survived surgery that repaired the extensive damage to his gut and other injuries.  Geraldine (Frank’s mom) and Vicky (Frank’s girlfriend) were there.  Although only 2 people could be there at any time and only a handful were allowed on the list to visit at all, Louis and I were permitted to see him.  Admittedly, I was nervous.  I wasn’t sure what I would experience.

Because of Frank’s serious condition, we obviously didn’t stay long…just long enough to pray.  We also prayed with Geraldine and Vicky.  This became a daily occurrence for Louis and me.  We would head to MCV – sometimes together, but sometimes separate.  After a couple of days, I think they finally realized that we weren’t going away….we were there for the long haul.

We are soo thankful for the many people that prayed with and for us.  The folks at Tuesday Night Prayer Service at Commonwealth Chapel regularly lifted all of us up, and we are so grateful for that.

Louis and my relationship went from basically 0-60 in just about 24 hours.  I went from barely liking the guy to seeing him every day!  We all still laugh about this now.  But, Vicky and Geraldine knew we were getting married before we did!  During that first week, they regularly asked me (when I was there without Louis), Where’s your husband?  I would repeatedly tell them, we aren’t married.  I barely know the guy.  We are still getting to know one another.  I just met him 4 weeks ago, etc.  But…they kept asking me where my husband was and Louis where his wife was.

Then finally, we were there together.  I was at one end of the room getting to know one of Frank’s friends, Anthony.  And Louis was at the other end of the room talking to Vicky and Geraldine.  When Geraldine asked – so….when you goin’ to marry her?  It’s written all over your face!  You’re in loOoOoOve.  I (obviously) was ½ listening to the conversation and glanced at Louis out of the corner of my eye, when I saw that Louis had turned a deep shade of RED!

This was a lovely time of bonding, sharing, and communing with Frank’s family.  It didn’t take long before we were hugging each other as we greeted and as we said farewell.  We were 2 vastly different groups of people in every way possible with very little in common brought together by a tragic event.  Now, over 2 years later, we are sharing life together…birthdays, holidays, etc.

Although I am SOOO sorry that all of us had to experience this event, I am thankful for the friends and dare I say family that is now the result!

But challenging times weren’t far off….

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3 Comments on “The Next Day Part 3”

  1. Louis Willams says:

    You just keep people hanging.